How active would you say I am, and do I exercise too much?

You are very active. It sounds like you're trying to lose weight. If not, maybe you are going too much. However, if you like working out, then enjoy it! Who cares what other people think. If you're only doing it becasue you're insecure about gaining weight or anything like that then yeah I think you're overdoing it. I suggest cutting back a little and spend some time with your family.